It’s clear how confused i was, and how much i wanted to believe, even though i had so many doubts. Nothing made sense to me, but i was somehow sure there was some kind of a god or spirit out there, and i obviously really cared about not offending that being.

I want to post it now, so that you can see where i’ve come from, and why i’m so much happier now that i’ve given up worrying about all this stuff!

Hello God. I’ve been missing you. You know I spent last year pretty much ignoring you, or just being indifferent towards you. I was confused and didn’t know what I believed, so I just chose to ignore you and religion most of the time. And then I was thinking, there’s something missing in my life, and I made a wild guess that perhaps it was you. Well I’ve got so much to be thankful for, and I really have a good life: I’ve got a job that I enjoy (most of the time) and pays me well, I live in a beautiful city and have pretty much everything I need, plus a wonderful partner to share it all with. So if everything’s so good, why do I feel so sad and empty a lot of the time? Is it that ‘God-shaped hole’ that people talk about?

So I thought I’d go back to church again, I’d read my Bible again, I’d pray again. And I mean proper prayers, not my indifferent sort of prayers where I didn’t really care whether you were listening or not. I thought it was time I started up a proper friendship with you again and got to know you like I knew you when I was little. Only I’m not sure whether I ever did, or whether I was just convincing myself. It’s hard to know for certain, you see.

And now I find, you’re not where I left you. You’ve gone somewhere else and I can’t find you where I thought you’d be. Well to tell the truth, I can’t go back to where I used to be. I’ve changed. My childhood beliefs were all based on what other people had told me, and me taking their word for it. I can’t do that anymore, God. Different people say different things, and I don’t know who to believe. Who’s right, who’s wrong? Or is it all relative? Maybe everyone’s right, in their own way. Maybe it’s only with the combination of every belief that we get the full picture. I suspect that any individual view is probably a distorted picture of you …

Can we ever know you completely, or are you un-knowable and un-fathomable? Are you external, somewhere up there looking over us, or are you internal, the still small voice in my heart? Maybe you’re my sub-conscience, or maybe my super-conscience? Are you one God, are you a trinity, or are you many? Could you be different things to different people? Is it up to everyone to find their own truth? Is the truth within us, or can we only access you in one way? Did Jesus have all the answers, or was Mohammed right? Did the Buddha really find enlightenment? Is Jesus really the only way to the Father, like he said?

What if I don’t believe in heaven? Can I still be a Christian if I find that reincarnation seems a more probable theory? Or maybe we’re just deluding ourselves, and we just die and that’s it, game over. Well, that seems unlikely, I like to think that some part of us lives on … but hey, can I just say I don’t know? Shall we just wait and see? Do I have to have any particular belief?

Will I ever know the truth with absolute certainty? Or do I just have to have ‘faith’? What if blind faith just isn’t cutting it for me at the moment? Can’t I find some answers somewhere? Yet if I do, how can I know that I can trust those answers?

Is the Bible as meaningful to us today as it was when it was written? Should it be updated and re-interpreted to fit today’s world, or does it remain the same for all eternity? Do you have a new word to bring to us today, or is the new word actually just the old word, heard in a new way?

Is there such a thing as a Holy Spirit? Does the Holy Spirit fill me? Has it ever done, or did I just imagine it? Could it have been wishful thinking, getting carried away in the excitement and emotion? If someone prays for the Holy Spirit to fill me, and it doesn’t feel like anything is happening, is that my fault? Am I too cynical, is that what’s preventing me from coming near to you? It’s hard to trust you when I’m feeling so uncertain.

Do you love me at all times, or are there times when you can’t bear to look at me because I’m so sinful? Do I have to earn your favour? Do I have to repent and receive forginevess? Will I be cut off from your love until I do that? Or can I come just as I am to worship you?

Will you help me to be a better person? I don’t really like myself very much at the moment. I want to be a better person, and I’ll do my best to change and become more loving, more tolerating more accepting … and less STRESSED!!! I’d really appreciate your help, if you’d like to help me. But you’ll have to speak a bit louder, God, cos at the moment I honestly just feel like I’m talking to myself. Still, I’m here and I’m willing for you to take me, break me and re-make me, if that’s what you want to do. It’s okay with me.

I’ll try to listen more carefully. Maybe I’m saying “Quiet Lord, thy servant is speaking” when I should be saying “Speak Lord, thy servant is listening”. I’ll make an effort, I promise. We’ll have some quiet time together today, how’s that?

Just let me know, yeah? Just give me a sign or something. Or until you do, I’ll just keep going to church and doing the things that I think might awaken me to you again. At least I know that I want to know you again. Last night I was crying because it felt like you’d abandoned me. But then I thought that’s a good thing – at least I’m showing some sort of emotion, which I guess is better than indifference. I’m coming back to you, God, and I hope you’ll find me.

With love,
aimee
January 2006

I can tell that i was heavily influenced by Sara Groves at that time, an artist who i still appreciate. I had also clearly been reading some of the “Conversations With God” books by Neale Donald Walsch books. I’ve no idea why i found reincarnation particularly plausible just then!

Needless to say, i never did really find God again, although i tried hard a few times after this. I even decided at one point to deliberately suspend all rational belief in order to have the blind faith that i thought i needed. It’s funny what cognitive dissonance can do to us, isn’t it?

This explains why i am so passionate about science, reasoning and rational thought these days. That is the place i find true comfort; that’s where things make sense to me.

For more about my current thoughts and beliefs, see:

• The things i believe now
• A letter to my dad (on coming out as an atheist)
• Isn’t this … enough? Just … this?

Reap: I had a cop the other night, i got pulled over and i had a cop say, “So you’re an atheist?” and i said “Yeah!” and so he goes, “So you don’t believe in God”? and i said “I don’t believe there’s any proof that there’s a god.” And he goes, “Well sure there is!” and i said, “Well, what is it?” and he goes, “Well look around you!” And i just wanted to go, “Are you a fricking retard, dude? What the hell do you mean, just look around me? That’s not proof of anything!”

Dan: Yeah, i know. I remember i got online and i was talking to some atheists when i was kinda doing my soul-searching and looking for things. And i remember looking at a leaf from a tree and thinking, “Holy crap! This wasn’t designed! This just became what it is, through millions of years of evolution. There’s a perfectly logical explanation for this. It makes sense. But … HOLY COW! This thing that i took for granted, i’ve just been taking for granted this whole entire time.” You know, look around, look at everything. Alright, well look at the trees. Look at nature. You know what? There’s explanations for it. You don’t have to freaking believe in hocus pocus to see beauty in reality!

Reap: I think it’s more awesome the way that stuff evolved, than a being snapping his fingers and making it.

It’s true, isn’t it? This world is amazing. It’s beautiful. I’m getting into photography a lot more these days, and i find myself seeking beauty in nature, and appreciating it so much. Knowing that there’s a process of continual adaptation and natural selection is fascinating and magnificent. Understanding how it works does not make it any less wonderful.

I have been thinking recently how glad i am that i gave up my beliefs in God. I used to care very much what God thought about me, and i trusted in God’s plan for my life. I depended on God to make everything alright for me. I don’t do that anymore. I make my own life. I became confident to love myself the way that i am. I feel in control of my destiny. Understanding that this is probably the only life i’ll have, i feel an urgency to make it the very best i can.

If i’m outspoken about my atheism, it’s not because i want to convert anyone else. I don’t think i can anyway. Plenty of people tried to convert me but i wasn’t ready for it. I came to it in my own time. I’m outspoken only because losing my belief has had a profoundly positive impact on my life.

People tell me that being an atheist is too much mental effort. That God is irrelevant and not worth even thinking about. I totally understand that because i feel the same apathetic irrelevance for every god except one. There is one particular god that i used to believe in and now i don’t. I think it’s accurate to say that my atheism is somewhat proportional to my former belief.

There was another part of the interview that i really liked. Here are Dan’s parting words:

Dan: I didn’t do anything particularly amazing. I just stood up at the right time and at the right place. I’d like to emphasise that. These armchair atheists or these armchair people who want to make a difference … well … do it! There’s something somewhere. No matter how small it is. If somebody expresses that they are skeptical about this, or they’re skeptical about that, say, “You know what, so am i!” And just that small little effort, just that small little bit is going to be the thing. It’s everybody doing a small little thing that’s going to create this movement, it’s going to create this change in our society.

And i think, getting online, being active … come on. Get off your butt, go do something. You’re in the right place at the right time. It’s just a lot of people just don’t want to do it. They’re too busy. So stop being too busy and make it a priority if it’s a priority for you. If not, you don’t have to, but you can’t bitch and whine and complain about it later.

So that’s why i wanted to write this post tonight. That’s my little bit.

I wear my “Born again atheist” badge and my “Happy humanist” badge and i am confident to say that i don’t believe in gods, or ghosts, or mediums, or psychics, or homeopathy, or acupuncture, or chiropractic, or conspiracy theories, or alien abductions, or any fantastic claims that don’t have equally fantastic evidence.

I think that what we know to be true is far more impressive and we can be more than content with just that.

The quote i used for the title of this blog post comes from Tim Minchin’s “Storm”. Well worth a watch.

Isn’t this enough? Just this world? Just this beautiful, complex wonderfully unfathomable world? How does it so fail to hold our attention that we have to diminish it with the invention of cheap, man-made Myths and Monsters?
- Tim Minchin

I’m working at White City, on the 5th floor of Broadcast Centre. We have a phenomenal view out to the west, a full clear view of the sky. For reference, here’s what it looks like in the early morning. The sun has just risen and the rays are spreading across the landscape …

But the real fun comes at sunset! We get the most amazing scenes! Here are some taken by talented photographer Dineshraj Goomany:

These photos by Dineshraj are absolutely stunning. I would love to learn to be that good at photography!

We have downloaded sunset reminder apps, and we have made it our mission to photograph the sunset every day. As Dineshraj was away the last 3 days, it was up to me to keep it going.

Monday looked so promising …

… but the clouds came just at the sunset …

Tuesday was so cloudy (and full of smoke from a nearby fire) that you wouldn’t even know a sunset was happening …

Wednesday was a phenomenally beautiful sunset! Here it comes about ten minutes before the set …

… we got these amazing gradients in the sky …

… it was so clear, i could see exactly which buildings the sun was setting behind …

We’ll be continuing to photograph the sunset as often as possible, so follow Dineshraj on flickr for all the best shots! :)

We make no promises how long we’ll keep this up, as the sunset gets later every day! :)

As i was doing my retrospective i had an idea for an online 5-year diary. My mum has one, actually it used to be my nanna’s, and now mum is continuing it. I have heard, and i can imagine, that there is something rather nice about seeing what you were doing on this day years ago, and the memories it brings back.

Some people keep them going for much longer than five years: here’s one i found on flickr that spans one day over 11 years!

Pop’s diary, by Rob Fenwick

I went to look in the shops to get some ideas about what 5-year diaries are like. Some key points i discovered: they have a bookmark so that it’s easy to get to today. They often have a lock and key: that gave me the idea that these things are private. They have a space at the top for reminders of birthdays and anniversaries.

I wanted to start my own online 5-year diary on the beginning of the year. On the 1st of January i began coding a Rails app, and by the evening fiveyeardiary.herokuapp.com existed! it looked like this:

Talk about lean startup! :D

By day 2 i’d grabbed the Twitter Bootstrap CSS and applied some styling like this:

As startup ideas go, this is quite terrible, because you have to use it for a year before it becomes really useful! So i decided to experiment with other views. As it’s a web app, we can mix things around in ways that you can’t in a physical book.

For example, wouldn’t it be interesting to see what you do every monday?

Or maybe you’d want to see it like a traditional diary, a week at a time:

Once i’ve got a few months in, it might also be interesting to see what i do on the same day of each month. We can do that! :)

I’ve been using it now for 3 weeks and i’m really liking it. As time goes on i’ve found i write more, and my entries have become more personal. Hence the blurring out! ;)

I really like the fact that this is not social and it’s not networking! Nothing i write here is going to appear in someone’s RSS feed, or get cross-posted to a blog, or announced on twitter or facebook. This is my private space for my private thoughts.

Soon i will add search capabilities. I have a vague idea about mood analysis of what you’ve written. I also see the possibilities of mobile apps, which is quite exciting. I’m aware that people will want to use this in very different ways, so i’m waiting to see what people want most.

If you would like to start your own five year diary, writing as much or little as you like every day, you can find it, currently here: fiveyeardiary.herokuapp.com. It may move at some point, but your private notes will be migrated securely.

It’s also open source, so if you prefer to host your own it’s easy to do so, either locally or on heroku. You can find out how at github.com/sermoa/fiveyeardiary

I’m keen for feedback, so please let me know what you’d like to see, and i’ll see what i can do! :)

Let me assume that you’ve already made the decision to switch to Colemak. If you need convincing, may i refer you to my previous post: Colemak is easy to learn.

This is roughly how it worked for me. Feel free to try it out, let me know how it goes for you, tell me if i need to tweak anything.

Preparation

Step 1: print out the keyboard layout. No really. Do this! You’ll thank me when your computer locks and you can’t figure out how to type your password!

If you’re on an Apple or TypeMatrix keyboard, you can use one of these that i made:

You can also find some generic layout diagrams on colemak.com

You’ll be tempted to put stickers on your keyboard, or pop the keys off and remap them. Most people discourage this, as do i. The reason is, you’ll be tempted to look at your keyboard, which is counterproductive. You’re trying to train your fingers. So look at the diagram until your fingers know their way. Also, if you move keys around they won’t fit quite right, and the useful bumps for your index fingers will be moved.

Unless you have a TypeMatrix or another hardware keymapper, you’ll need to change some software settings. On Linux and OSX Lion this is easy as the layout comes built-in. On Windows and OSX Snow Leopard you need to install something. Follow instructions from the colemak.com download page

Day 1

Find a typing tutor that knows Colemak. On Linux i recommend ktouch, and on OSX i like aTypeTrainer4Mac. Other suggestions are on the colemak.com learn page.

This is aTypeTrainer4Mac. It’s puke green and Comic Sans, but it’s really clever at how it progresses you through the levels at a sensible pace. It also provides nice reports and charts showing your progress.

You’ll need to practise little and often for the next several weeks. Grab five minutes here and there, every chance you get. Consider screencasting yourself, as a way of recording your progress. If you know someone else who is learning, it can be good fun to practise together, taking turns. Don’t do too much at once: when you get tired and feel your mistakes increasing, it’s time for a rest.

Day 2

The nice thing about Colemak is that after the first day of training you should already know the home row, which can be up to 70% of what you’ll type! So get your print-out diagram, and have a go, whenever you need to type an email, or tweet, or whatever. Go very slowly! Focus on using the correct fingers. Try not to hunt and peck. If you make a mistake, delete the whole word and try again.

This will soon become unbearably frustrating, at which point, switch back to your familiar keyboard layout. When you feel ready for another try, take a deep breath, and get your brain into that hyper concentrated mode where you focus really carefully, thinking about every letter before you type it.

For some reason, i found it helped if somebody dictated an email to me, and i typed it. Perhaps because then all i had to think about was typing.

This will keep you going for the next few weeks, along with your training which you should still be doing every moment you get.

Week 2

As you enter your second week you’ll probably be gaining a little bit of confidence. It’s a good time to measure your progress. Sign up for an account at TypeRacer and either practise by yourself or even better, get some other people to race against. A good way is to select “Race your friends” and put the URL on twitter, inviting people to join in. I always like a couple of races, if i have time! :)

The more you type real text, you’ll start to feel new pathways forming in your brain and in your finger movements. It’s an amazing feeling; i’ve never felt neurons moving so tangibly as when i’m learning a new keyboard layout. Common letter patterns like “and”, “the”, “you”, and “ing” become familiar and you start to think of them as a single unit rather than individual letters. It’s as if you give your fingers the “ing” command and they do it!

Week 4

At some point, maybe in your third, fourth or fifth week, you’ll be typing Colemak more and more, and feeling less of a need to revert back to your old keyboard layout. In fact, you’ll probably feel yourself forgetting it altogether. This is the pivot point. There’s no going back now. So this is the moment to switch full time over to Colemak.

You’ll still be slow, or at least you’ll think you are slow. In fact, by now you’ll probably be around 40 words per minute, which is about the average speed for someone who never makes a conscious effort to learn how to type well. Remind yourself that you’re getting better all the time.

If you happen to use Vim, you may want to print out a Colemak Vim cheatsheet. I’ve done a standard layout and a TypeMatrix version:

Keep up the practise with your typing tutor for as long as you feel the need. Now that you’re full-time Colemak, you’re getting a lot of real-world experience of course, but the tutor can help you to build up the speed.

Week 8

By now, your fingers and your brain should be really comfortable in Colemak. You’ll be able to type without really thinking hard about it. From now on, and for the rest of your life, it’s all about minimising mistakes and increasing accuracy and speed.

For typing, i really embrace the sentiment “Take your time and go fast”. TypeRacer tells you your accuracy as well as words per minute. I’ve found that every mistake costs me about 5 words per minute. Don’t rush, don’t try to go faster than you’re able. You will trip up. If you want to increase your words per minute, focus on minimising your mistakes per minute.

If you find yourself forming bad habits, correct them. For years i had a dreadful habit of only ever using the left shift key, no matter which letter i was typing. That habit gave me bad RSI in my left hand. The same thing goes for the Cmd+C / Cmd+V pattern on a mac. I frequently see people making painful contortions with their left hand. You have another Cmd key on the right! Use it!

Unfortunately, the mac keyboard doesn’t give you a Ctrl key on the right. TypeMatrix does, but it has no right Cmd key. Swings and roundabouts, hey!

Other thoughts

While you’re learning, you’ll probably want to put Colemak on your other devices, for additional practice. I believe iPhone and iPad have Colemak available since iOS 5 … can anyone confirm? It’s easy to get Colemak for Android, using AnySoftKeyboard or my preferred one: MultiLing Keyboard.

I always look forward to the group: i’ve made some really good friends, and we go out for other social occasions outside of the monthly group. It has really replaced the sense of community that i felt i was lacking after leaving the church.

Today i felt very proud of what it is becoming. Fifteen people turned up today. That was twelve adults, two children and a baby. We had some really good intellectual and personal conversations, and a fairly intense debate about the meaning of marriage outside of a religious context: why people choose to get married and what they understand of it, and how the state should recognise relationships.

Some people were there for the first time today and got talking to each other and very clearly benefitted from the conversation they had. One person had only recently started openly admitting their non-belief, and there was such a sense of support and encouragement among people who understood and could relate to similar experiences.

I feel proud. Not because i made it happen. All i did was help set off something that has grown into a place where these things can happen naturally. Everyone today expressed their gratitude that the group exists. I am delighted that people bring their kids, and it has such a friendly welcoming atmosphere.

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Set the stage

This has been a very exciting year in many ways, and a challenging year in many others. I am interested to review what has happened this year, see what i can learn from it, and make decisions about what i should do differently next year, and what i should keep doing the same, or do more of.

Right now i have no specific plan of how this is going to go, but i am making a commitment to myself to be honest about what has happened this year, and see what insights and decisions that helps me to generate.

Gather data

At the beginning of the year i was still working at Eden Development. In January we welcomed Alberto Peña and Despo Pentara as apprentices and i became a mentor to the two of them.

In February Tom Brand encouraged me to switch to the Colemak keyboard layout. I enjoyed the challenge and have become a great Colemak advocate!

In March Eden Development closed and, rather than looking for another company to work for, i chose to become self-employed.

I began contracting at a medium sized software consultancy firm in London. The two-month contract mostly involved writing HTML5, CSS3 and JavaScript to help build the new Bestseller online store.

Whilst contracting in London i met Rohit Gogna, a software tester, who asked to apprentice to me.

In April i went to Scottish Ruby Conference and enjoyed it immensely. Not only was it good to be around so many Rubyists, but it was also an opportunity for me to relax and reflect for the first time since becoming self-employed.

At the end of May i finished my contract in London and did my first day of freelance work. It was only one day: i worked with Alanna to build aphroditesdesire.com. I really enjoyed myself, and it was fantastic to see what could be achieved with Shopify in a single day!

My next engagement was with boxedup.com. They had been working on a rebuild of their website for 2 years without any review from the userbase. I told them that we needed to get a beta version out to get feedback as soon as possible. It was hard work but we did it within 3 weeks. Two weeks later, after a lot of tweaking and bug fixing, the new site went live. I came back to work with boxedup again later in the year, to add more functionality.

In June I set up a study group to work through the book Seven Languages in Seven Weeks by Bruce Tate. We met up on sunday afternoons on Skype and Google+ to discuss what we had learned each week. I got a lot from it and blogged in detail about my progress.

The seven weeks taught me a lot. I gained a better grasp of Ruby metaprogramming. Io helped me to appreciate JavaScript better. Prolog was frustratingly pedantic but enthralling when you see it solving complicated logic problems with ease! Clojure was good but i think i prefer pure Lisp. Haskell was interesting but i didn’t get the kind of epiphany that made me want to study it more. Scala was my favourite: all the goodness of Java strong typing, combined with the sort of elegance that you get from Ruby. Plus concurrency and actor support, and XML being a top-level concept – i love it!

I had a 3-month contract in Edinburgh working with feusd.com on a highly customisable social networking platform. The platform was built in Rails with a strong emphasis on agile/lean techniques and behaviour driven development. I trained Tony Milne whom i got to know very well during my time there, who still works at Feusd, and still contacts me sometimes to ask my opinions and advice on various topics.

One of the products i’ve really enjoyed using this year is Buffer. I volunteered to work on an open-source Android app, mostly because i wanted to use it, but also to learn some Android programming. We released a very simple version that a lot of people used and appreciated. Joel later raised some money and paid me to build version 2 and to advise on the development of the API.

I was privileged to have Stuart Gale stay with me for a week in October to help me out with Buffer for Android. We had a lot of fun and learned a lot together.

From the success of Buffer for Android i was contacted by Alon Nir to build an Android app to send prayers to Jerusalem. I tried out Phonegap and Sencha Touch but wasn’t happy with the user experience, so i switched to native code. I was surprised how quickly i managed to build the app in Java, and how comfortable i felt doing it. I really like Android programming!

At the end of November i spent a week with a corporate client in Reading, converting their full text search functionality from Ferret to Solr. I was impressed by Solr, i meant to write a blog post about it but didn’t get round to it.

I helped to facilitate three code retreats this year: in Winchester, Sheffield and London. Sadly, i felt unable to participate in the Global Day of Code Retreat in December due to exhaustion and social anxiety.

I have really learned to embrace science, critical thinking and reasoning this year. Skeptics in the Pub has been awesome, i’ve listened to some great podcasts, i loved Uncaged Monkeys in December, and i finally came out to my dad as an atheist in October, which was a great relief for me. I’ve also really benefited from the Winchester humanist group that i co-founded.

This year i had some nice trips abroad. I went to Germany twice to visit relatives. I went to Madrid for a Path11 inception, and Brussels for a short holiday.

I have spent a lot of time on administration: scanning receipts and logging finances. I am grateful to freeagent for making this a lot easier, but it still takes up a lot of my time, usually a large chunk of every saturday. That said, i do quite enjoy doing it, i’m very careful with it and i think i’d rather do it myself than entrust someone else with it.

I really failed at Christmas this year. I didn’t have the motivation to even look for presents for people, i didn’t write any Christmas cards, and i felt rather overwhelmed at the whole idea. I am sure this was as a direct result of having been so busy during the whole year, and not taking enough time out for myself and my loved ones.

The Christmas holiday was great. I slept a lot and felt myself relaxing as a physical sensation. It felt quite odd to me at first: i had literally forgotten how it feels to relax.

Generate insights

It has been an amazing year. I have achieved so much, looking at all that data i’ve gathered, it’s almost impossible to believe!

But it has taken a toll. I’ve worked harder than i’ve ever worked before in my life, and although i’ve enjoyed most of it, i’ve found it incredibly stressful and it has affected my personal life and my relationships.

One thing that’s clear to me is i have not been a good mentor to my apprentices. Despo and i decided to end our mentor/apprentice relationship soon after we both became self-employed. I keep in touch with Alberto and Rohit, but not often enough, and the relationships are not as strong as i think they ought to be.

Something i’ve enjoyed a lot is learning new things. I really liked the Seven Languages in Seven Weeks, i enjoyed learning a bit about Node.js and Backbone.js, i loved everything i’ve learned about Android.

Problems for me have been feelings of isolation, or making too many decisions on my own. I really enjoyed the time i spent in Edinburgh pairing with Tony, and the week when Stuart came to pair with me, but other than that i’ve done a lot of work by myself.

Oddly enough though, the stress of working alone and taking big responsibilities upon myself seems to have increased my social anxiety. I have problems being around too many people i don’t know. Unfortunately, Code Retreats, conferences and user groups fall into that category. I prefer to get to know people better on a one-to-one basis.

Something i didn’t do any of this year was develop my own pet projects. I had a few ideas, and i did a little research for them, but i didn’t find the time to put my ideas into action. I think this is largely because i spent most of my time either working, or looking for my next work.

To summarise, in terms of finance and reputation, this has been a very successful year. In terms of personal wellbeing, and personal relationships, it has not been very good.

Decide what to do

It is clear to me now that my number one priority in 2012 is to focus on my personal life. I enjoy my work, but my whole life should not be about the work that i do. I need to make more time for my partner, for my friends and family, for my apprentices, and for myself. I really do need to make time, not just hope there will be some time left over.

Working with Alon in Israel for two weeks, i was really touched by the Jewish concept of Shabbat, a whole 24 hours per week where you put everything stressful aside and take time to relax. I think that’s something that i could benefit from.

I will take more time to communicate with friends and family. I want to revive the art of letter writing, to keep in touch with people better. Maybe it would be good to disconnect from the internet one day per week and write letters to people instead.

I will contact my apprentices and see how we should proceed. I want to be a better mentor, but i also need to assess what they want from the relationship, and how we can make it better.

I want to do more Android development. I actually want to make my own app rather than just building apps for other people. Even during this retrospective, an idea has come to mind that i want to try out.

I want to continue learning. I bought a book on learning Python last year, and i haven’t even opened it. I will learn Python this year.

In order to make these changes, a few things need to happen. I need to not spend so much time working by myself making big decisions alone. That is to say, i need to be part of a bigger team again where decisions are made collaboratively. I also need to spend less time on administration and looking for work.

This fits very well with a long-term contract that i have arranged … but the contract is not signed yet so i don’t want to say too much until it’s absolutely definite. But with this contract in place, i should be better placed to achieve my other goals and feel less stressed.

Close the retrospective

This has taken a long time but i feel it has been extremely beneficial. To me. Probably not to anybody else. I’ve actually been debating with myself whether i really want to publish this, or whether it’s just something that i needed to do for myself. But part of the benefit of doing this sort of thing is the accountability: this is where i’m at, this is what i want to achieve, and i’m making it public so that i’m more likely to stick to it.

I want to close by giving appreciations.

I am hugely grateful to my mentor, Enrique Comba Riepenhausen of Path11 who has been a never-ending source of encouragement to me. In my early days of being self-employed, i needed a lot of encouragement, and Enrique was always there for me. Sometimes we’d speak on a daily basis, when i needed it. Thank you, Enrique, for never tiring of me.

Another person who encouraged me a lot was Steve Tooke of Heavies. It was Steve (tooky) who first prompted me to think about going self-employed, assured me i could do it, and gave me a lot of advice on how to get started. We’ve met up on several occasions since, it’s always good to catch up, and tooky also encouraged me to keep going when i was struggling and thinking of quitting a particular project.

I am thankful to Tim McMillen of Alniro who took a chance on me and recommended me into my first contract. I was very nervous in those days and i’m grateful to Tim for that important start.

Thank you to Drew Jones and James Griffiths for being hugely supportive in my first contract, telling me everything i needed to know about contracting, and reassuring me that it wasn’t as scary as i imagined.

Many thanks to Marc Johnson for meeting me at a crucial moment when i felt totally alone and isolated, and sharing some great advice, along with delicious pancakes! You made me feel like there were people who cared about me, who could replace the security i lost from being part of a company.

Thank you to the people i met in Edinburgh who befriended me when i was feeling homesick. Special thanks to Will Cumming who provided some much needed support when i needed it. Thank you also to Kate Ho and Tony Milne, it was great to get to know you, and i’m really glad we’ve stayed in touch.

I must thank Hallam Smallpeice of boxedup. I spent a lot of time living in Hallam’s house this year, enjoying wonderful vegan food and the amazing Bedfordshire countryside. Hallam is a great project manager, and someone i consider to have become a friend. Although i am not vegan, thanks to Hallam’s influence, i now eat much less dairy produce than i used to. I am also addicted to Portal, for which i think i will always be grateful to Hallam!

Immense thanks and gratitude to Chris Parsons who first gave me the opportunity to follow my heart and do what i love. Eden Development was a truly wonderful place to work, i learned so much in such a great working environment. I couldn’t possibly do the work that i do now, without the things i learned from Chris and others at eden.

Ah. With the retrospective over, i am now ready to go and make some party food and some mulled wine, get the television on and have a nice relaxed evening to see in the new year!

Here’s to 2012 – may it be a happy and successful year for us all!

Many of the keys stay the same, which means many of your shortcuts remain the same. On a Mac, these shortcuts are Undo, Cut, Copy, Paste, Bold, Minimize, Hide, Quit and Close.

The keys that do move don’t go far, usually one or two keys away. Mostly we’re trying to get the common letters on to the home row and move the uncommon ones away. Many keys that move stay on the same finger, or at least in the same hand. Only E and P swap hands. In Dvorak, 22 keys swap hands.

The punctuation keys don’t move, except for the colon/semicolon (no way that gets to stay on the home row!) In the Dvorak layout, all of these punctuation characters move: fullstop, comma, question mark, single quote, double quotes, square brackets, curly braces, angle brackets, dash, underscore, plus and equals. It’s a nightmare for programmers!

If you were to scratch off the keys that have moved, look how many you’d have to remove for Colemak compared to Dvorak:

As if you didn’t know, QWERTY is inefficient. Dvorak is a lot better, but Colemak is by far the best. To prove this point, here is the heat map of typing this very blog post on QWERTY, Dvorak and Colemak:

There are other reasons here to explain why Colemak is easy to learn.

With the holidays coming up, do your future self a favour and learn Colemak!

Update: so you’ve decided you want to learn Colemak and want to know how to go about it? AWESOME! I have just the post for you: How to learn Colemak.

I have just finished a two-week project building an Android app called @TheKotel – Prayers to Jerusalem.

Now, anyone who knows me even slightly might think this is a bit weird, and believe me, i had a long conversation with myself about it before deciding to take on the work. These are the reasons that i did.

1. I think it’s a nice idea. Putting thoughts into words and feeling that you’ve offloaded them somewhere is sometimes all people need to feel better.
2. I saw a video of Alon printing the prayers and cutting them up and taking them to the wall. It made a personal connection for me.
3. There’s already a successful iPhone app with over 10,000 downloads, so i saw this is definitely something that people want, which is all good publicity for me.
4. Alon raised money from the people who already use the iPhone app to pay for the development of the Android app.
5. I saw it as an opportunity to learn a bit more about Android development, try out PhoneGap and Sencha Touch (which i dropped when i found i wasn’t happy with the quality).
6. I had saved up enough money in the back that i could offer this more-or-less as a gift, not expecting much money for it but instead doing it for reputation and for another Android app in my portfolio.

The concept is very simple. You type your prayer on a piece of paper (or pray out loud with Android’s speech-to-text feature) and press “Amen” and the prayer gets sent to Alon in Israel.

Combined with all the prayers that get sent via twitter and the iPhone app, Alon prints out thousands at a time, cuts them into little slips, rolls them up tight and takes them to the Western-Wall, or The Kotel, the remains of the Second Temple in Jerusalem.

The app is free, and the service is totally free, but donations are gratefully accepted. There is also a Connect screen giving options to share the app with friends and feel connected to the Western-Wall and Jerusalem. We also included some background information about the Wall and how the service got started, as well as some personal messages from a few supporters who helped to raise funds.

Best of all, there’s the gallery where you can see where the prayers are going. I really like this image of Alon putting the prayers in the Wall.

I am very pleased with the final result. It’s nice and fast, good native Android experience, and i think people are going to love it! I enjoyed coming back to Android development, say what you want about Java, but i like it!

If you can bear to listen to me talk about this anymore, Alon asked me to record a video in my “enchanting” British accent, heheh! :)

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I am making a pumpkin risotto (yes, right now! cooking and blogging, ftw!) and i realised that we don’t have any white wine. My partner suggested using red wine instead and i immediately stated that it wouldn’t work. Why? Do i have an irrational belief that you can only use white wine in risotto?

I have no scientific data that says white wine is better than red wine. The best i can come up with is: “it feels wrong”. I have an Availability Bias that every risotto recipe i can remember has always used white wine.

We all have irrational beliefs, and most of them are harmless. The point at which irrational beliefs become something to worry about is when they wish injustice, suffering or death upon other people. Or when they indoctrinate children to fear their natural impulses and feel guilt and shame for just being who they are. Or when they make people stop taking necessary medicine and get sick and die. Or when they make people repeat information which has been proved to be false, which misleads other people.

I’m glad to have discovered one of my irrational beliefs, and i’ll be looking out for more of them in the future. I’ll be happy if i find that all of them are just as harmless. I’m also eager to test my bias now that i’ve found it, so i’m about to put red wine into my pumpkin risotto. I’ll let you know how that works out! :)

Update

It worked out really well! i even think i prefer it with red wine! Hooray for discarding irrational beliefs! :D